We celebrate Valentine’s Day on February 14th each year.

When I lived in the US, I loved seeing the hearts everywhere, and I remember getting dresses and accessories for my kids. Of course, they were still little and loved it all. They even brought in Valentine’s card for everyone at school. I love this idea!

I have always been such a heart person; so feeling the love and seeing hearts everywhere is just awesome for me.

When I was married, however, I was told I was too emotional too sensitive and it made me feel like I was lacking. Even though I am very analytical and have studied at the University, I felt I was not intelligent enough. I was always wrong and, of course, I never felt like I was good enough.

Nowadays, I know there is nothing wrong with being highly sensitive. I embrace being an intuitive Empath and have left my need to fit into a box behind. I am a proud leader of the hearts. I love to open the doors to my clients’ hearts. There is nothing like being in the flow of Love. This is the most amazing feeling – the ease, the flow, feeling at peace… so perfect and loved just the way we are. We thrive when we are in the flow of love and everything seems to be effortless.

 

 

Love is our essence.

Love is where we came from and love is where we are going back to. Now, here on earth, we are all searching for that all-encompassing love, and often we look for it outside of ourselves.

We hope to find that true feeling of love in a partnership; we long to feel worthy, maybe in our job or in our role within our family.

I have been there. I lived through a Narcissist – Empath Relationship and felt unworthy and absolutely wrong for being the way I am. I bent over backward to please my husband, yet nothing worked. I only lost myself while I was trying to make everything work for us.

I have healed and released the pain and hurt associated with that relationship and I have become strong within myself. I am a recovering doormat. I now know that being sensitive is one of my biggest assets.

After my marriage ended, I had another relationship where I was back in love. I felt good about myself and felt beautiful and happy once again.

However, when this relationship started breaking apart, I had a breakdown. I cried for days on end. I felt deeply unloved; I wondered whether I had tried hard enough.

I let it all go, though, and connected with my spiritual being. I connected to the Universe and the Angels. I read many books and learned, almost step-by-step how I could touch into the love within.

I realized that we have it all within us.

‘Look within. Within is the fountain of good, and it will ever bubble up, if thou wilt ever dig’ (quote by Marcus Aurelius)

Step-by-step, I learnt to accept myself fully, and acceptance turned into love – gentle and nurturing love. I felt stronger and better every day, till I was able to truly feel proud and worthy.

Still, I had a hard time verbalizing what I felt, or even saying NO to others.

Slowly I learnt that no one gets angry when I say No. That people actually look at me differently when I am assertive. They appreciate me speaking up.

Nowadays, I am stepping more and more into my true self, speaking up, and stating my truth. It does not disturb me so much anymore when someone is of a different opinion. We are all able to form our own view, and that is very much ok.

I love to be in the flow of love

and I love myself truly.

I know my worth and how to say No to things that do not suit me.

Yes, I am still single – happily single, and I know I would not lower myself again, just to be in a relationship. I am open to meeting the right partner, though, and finding a soulful relationship where we meet eye-to-eye like equals in a loving relationship.

I am done with being dependent.

I celebrate the day of LOVE every year.

Valentine’s Day can be for singles too.

 

 

Commercialised

Yes, Valentine’s Day is the day most flowers are sold. It is the day when you can’t book a dinner in a romantic restaurant short term. It is the day when most cards are written and distributed. Yes, they probably even sell many lovely heart dresses in stores.

My father used to say that the florists invented Valentine’s Day, just so they would be able to sell some flowers in the low winter months.

Here’s a bit of history about the holiday.

One legend goes:

Saint Valentine was a Catholic priest who married young lovers in secret, despite the decree of the Roman Emperor that single men make better soldiers, and hence were not allowed to marry and have children. So the Roman Emperor had Valentine killed. He was later turned into a saint. You can read more about the story here:

http://www.history.com/topics/valentines-day/history-of-valentines-day

Celebrating St. Valentine on February 14th might have been an effort of the Roman church to Christianize the pagan celebration of Lupercalia, which was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus. (you can read more about this also at the link above)

However you want to see it, I love a day devoted to LOVE and am happy to celebrate Valentine’s Day in my own way.

Are you ready to embrace the spirit of Valentine and celebrate the day just the way YOU want?

We do not have to write cards, we do not have to buy red roses, and we can celebrate Love the way we love.

 

 

Red Roses

Do you expect your significant other to give you RED roses because you feel it is the only true flower of LOVE?

Is it what you love? Or what you expect?

I used to want red roses as a token of love, to reassure me that my partner loved me dearly.

However, since becoming single and deeply connecting with myself, I have learnt that I actually prefer PINK roses. I adore pink roses, as they are also connected to self-love and healing.

Do you know which flower is your favorite?

Do you know what you would love to get for Valentine’s Day?

Do you have an idea of your innermost wishes?

 

We often don’t take the time to really connect with ourselves or we blow off our own desires, instead siding with societal expectations. They say red roses are the flowers of love, so why would I not prefer red roses?

Ready to learn more about what you truly wish?

 

 

Disappointed

How often were you disappointed on Valentine’s Day?

I was most often. I took the time to tap into my partners back then. Knowing them well, as an intuitive empath, it was easy for me to sense what they would love to receive. I made an effort to get them lovely heart-warming gifts.

And then I just got a bunch of flowers, or nothing at all because they did not make the effort, or because they knew me so little, or because they did not care?

Maybe a bit of all of the above. Maybe also, because I, myself, did not have a clear idea of what I truly wanted. Maybe I expected flowers because it was the social norm.

Also, I know I did not prioritize myself, so why should my partner? They were only mirroring me. I always came last. I always was nearly forgotten or an afterthought.

It is time to make yourself a priority.

It is time to tap within and listen to your own wishes and grant yourself some of them.

It is time to step up and be true to yourself. You are so worthy and deserving of your own love.

You are lovable, just the way you are.

Show some appreciation for yourself. If you didn’t do these acts of self-love and care, who would?

 

Single or not, learn to celebrate Valentine’s Day your way

 

My Webinar can help you

find it in my Healing Shop…

How To Be Your Own Best Valentine

 

Learn all about feeling worthy of receiving the best gift ever – LOVE.

 

 

I am so looking forward being with you and assisting you in opening the doors to your heart so you feel worthy of your own love and start appreciating yourself more, too.

Life is so much better when we all love ourselves and are able to spread that love from the inside out.

 

Warmest of hugs

and much love,

Caroline

Your Heart Flow Healer

Welcome back to the insights of my deeply healing journey around the United States of America

If you missed the beginning of our trip, you can read it here:

Deeply Healing Journey Part 1

Enjoy the continuation of the journey:

 

Chicago

Welcome to the Windy City! We enjoyed our visit and meeting up with friends from Zurich.

I loved the beach at Lake Michigan and the feel of this great city. I loved visiting it 13 years ago and was happy to come back again. Chicago is special to me, and I feel a kind of freedom there.

Make your own rules, is what I was reminded in this city. We do not always have to follow others rules (of course, we all follow the rule of not harming anybody and be friendly to thy neighbor, as well as being good role models and citizen of this planet earth).

The Chicago feeling got me thinking about how much I still attempt to please people around me, and how reluctant I am to put up my own boundaries and rules.

It was time to grow and really look deep within: what are my values, and how can I follow up on them, as well as working to release old family rules and patterns.

It is OK to live outside of boundaries. It is ok to set yourself free. We often hold ourselves back by putting up boundaries or imaginary fences. I ought not to do this. Because why not? Why not try new things, why not expand beyond my boundaries?

 

My kids loved the Science Museum and Lake Michigan. They wanted to have a swim, till they dipped their toes in and realized how cold the water was. They also loved the tilt (30 degrees tilting down over the city of Chicago) on the Observation Deck in the Hancock  Tower (and Mom chickened out of it )

I loved the area around the lake and just being in this great city.

 

San Francisco

Coming from hot New York, DC and Chicago into San Francisco had us shivering.

I was reminded that the coldest winter I experienced was the summer I spent in San Francisco (a quote origin a discussion)

I so loved spending time with my godson and his family, Long time friends are a treasure and time spent together is amazing.

Family counts, not only my three kids but also expanded family.

True friends nourish the soul. There never is any ice to break between you, and they know your story, as they’ve been with you for decades. They accept you as you are and always have an encouraging word for you, and a soul-embracing hug. I so treasured spending time with my lovely friends in San Francisco.

However, sometimes kids fight, and after being together for 2 weeks, emotions got a bit tense. We all realized being on top of each other for 24/7 can be challenging. There is hardly any space in hotel rooms and on tours, and we all grow tired of being surrounded and are in desperate need of alone time.

Spending 6 days in San Francisco was great, and we really got to see a lot there.

My kids loved the Science Academy, Planetarium, and Catherine loved shopping with Auntie T.

I loved the Japanese Tea Garden, Sausalito, the Glass Beach, and seeing long time friends and their embraces, as well as hugging my wonderful godson.

 

Los Angeles

We traveled south to LA and we found inspiration there.

Follow your dreams was one of my first messages from Hollywood. It is so worth following up on your dreams and allowing yourself to dream big.

Be your own star. We are all Stars. It is time for you to sparkle and shine, and feel into your star being and what it means for you – that was the message I was getting in LA.

Feature in your own movie, lead your life and create your own movie. Make your life real and follow up on your own version. Dream your own dreams.

Be true to yourself and step up into your awesome being. Take deep breaths and allow it all in. No need to copy someone else, just be yourself.

Despite the fact that my daughter Catherine was in her favorite spot, she had huge issues with her younger brother, Horatio. The younger two siblings were becoming more and more agitated towards each other. I felt some built up frustration boiling over.

So I had to step in-between them a lot, deciding when to let it go, and also attend to my own need for peace and quiet among the kids’ harsh energies.

Staying centered, cutting my cords, and shielding myself with pink light helped me along. I also cut the cords and used pink loving energy on all three of my kids so they were able to be more themselves and stay centered too.

Enjoy the video explaining and showing you, how you can cut the cords and pour pink loving light around you or a loved one:

 

Being on top of each other 24/7 brings out the worst in everyone. Being tired and hungry does not help either.

I was reminded of my friend telling me that traveling with teenagers is like traveling with babies – when they are hungry or tired they become grumpy. Amen to that.

What my kids loved best: Catherine, EVERYTHING; boys Santa Monica Pier.

I loved The Walk of Fame and the Hollywood sign, as well as walking along the beaches, and as always enjoying fresh seafood.

 

Sedona

Finally, a first for me. I have never been to Sedona before and was really looking forward to the spiritual place and sensing into the Energies.

However, we had to get up really early for all of our city changes, which did not help to improve the moods of my kids.

I so loved to see the Grand Canyon! What an amazing view and colours. I am deeply humbled by nature and loved to feel the energy of Mother Earth.

After all the city energies, it was refreshing to really feel the spiritual hotspot energies of Sedona and enjoy a calmer pace.

What to do when you do not feel what you were expecting, or if the feeling does not meet your expectations? I was wondering this for a while, as my expectations for Sedona were very high. Instead of worrying about it, I let go of expectations and allowed myself to just experience it all, allowing myself to feel what I felt, even if I felt differently to others. I learnt to trust my own voice and just breathed it all in.

 

On the Vortex Tour to all the sacred places around Sedona, I felt deeply grounded like never before. This was such an amazing experience, and I was in awe of it all. Of course, that was on a male vortex, a.k.a. time to embrace my male energies more.

I felt alive and purified and centered, and just in awe of the red stones around us.

I learnt more about Balancing male and female energies, and really about allowing myself to receive as much as I give.

Catherine loves green smoothies and had one each morning, so I set my intention on creating them at home, thus supporting her wish for healthy food.

Sedona was awesome and in so many ways more than I could have ever expected.

What my kids loved: the Grand Canyon and the pool in the hotel

What I loved: feeling grounded, breathing it all in, getting inspired as well as the red rocks, amazing nature, and – of course – being able to visit the Grand Canyon

 

I loved sharing the second part of our journey with you! Stay tuned to read on about the last part of our adventure and what I learnt from it all.

Next week, I will be sharing the third and last part of our journey.

Deeply Healing Journey Part 3

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Warm hugs,

Caroline

I just spent 5 weeks travelling in the United States with my three kids. We thoroughly enjoyed our adventure. It was a deeply healing journey down memory lane for all of us, especially for me. I learnt so much, and was able to let go of some emotional luggage I’d been dragging around, and I noticed old behavior patterns coming up to the surface again.

Travelling with Teenagers

Being a single Mom is often challenging, especially when travelling with three teenagers. It was also very rewarding and we grew even closer, despite the fights my children had.

‘No conflict can persist without your participation’, a wonderful quote by Wayne Dyer. I recited this one a lot on our vacation, but they did not get it. They held on to the urge to be right, the urge to always have the last word, their stubbornness was stronger (I do NOT know where they have this from?)

I saw my teenage self in them. I learnt to allow them their rebellious phase and accepted that some wisdom comes with age.

I remembered reading about teenagers and they were compared to the teenage phase of a lobster when its baby shell falls off. He is naked and hides in a cave because he is very vulnerable. He’ll stay there until he has grown a new shell. Yes, they are vulnerable and use biting words.

Letting Go, Trusting and not taking things personally were big themes for me on this trip, as well as learning to ask for help from my kids. I am so used to being the catering and nurturing Mom that I forget they are not the small kids anymore.

 

Before the adventure

I had booked flights and hotels in January, so all was set and ready.

I later booked all the day trips, just to make sure we could do what we wanted. Airport transfers were another worry of mine, as I felt that 4 people with 4 suitcases would never fit in one taxi, so it was better to get it done and sorted beforehand so that I could release worries on those issues.

Connecting with all the friends we wanted to meet up with and organizing the schedule around those meetups was fun. I was so happy to connect with them and even after 12 years, it was just like we saw each other yesterday. I love it.

Healing started ahead of the trip

The day before we started our huge journey, I felt a bit under the weather. I put it down to ‘Reisefieber’ (literally translated it means travel fever; however, it is usually an over excitement to an upcoming trip). I woke up on Monday morning with a sore throat, though, and a sinus pain and thought that is the last thing I needed when I was getting ready to fly for 8 hours.

This was just the beginning of a deeply healing trip, where everything I ever encountered showed up in my life again

I know sickness and illness can be a sign of healing, a sign to let it all out of your system – this time for good. So I embraced it and went on my journey.

 

New York

Traveling to New York was exciting, but my sinus pain was nearly unbearable especially when the airplane started its descent. I started tapping on my face and especially the areas that hurt (I did not follow the EFT procedure; I adapted it to my own needs, which is awesome), and it released a lot of pain. I did feel comfortable and could deal with the landing with joy and ease.

Meeting long time friends was an added bonus. It was great to see my friends I left behind 12 years ago when we moved back to Switzerland. It was lovely catching up and hugging in real life, and it felt like we were never apart. Soul friends.

Trip down Memory Lane

Visiting my former home, tears and good old memories came up. A part of me wished for that life I had then. Back then, I was still married, I had someone to take care of me. My youngest, Horatio, was just born, and, looking back, it felt like it was easy and carefree – not including the emotional drain and unsupportive ex, the emotional abuse of a narcissistic partner.

It is wonderful to know we always remember the good parts and somehow overcome the less good parts. Looking back, I see how far I have come, how much I have overcome, and how I’ve reconnected with my freedom, my peace, and my inner love, which I have come to embrace since then.

A trip down memory lane can be very healing. I loved visiting places I stayed 12 to 14 years ago when we lived in the New York area. It was a very deeply healing visit, and good for me to come back to and embrace the pain from those days and release it, rather than pushing it away, as I used to do.

 

 

Accept the past, see the good, heal, and move on.

Treasure what you have in this moment. Looking back, you may only see the good and might wish to have the past back – or at least parts of it.

 

Remember you can create your own reality right now. Whatever you are missing from that part of your life can be integrated into the here and now, too.

I love the hustle and bustle of a busy city, especially New York, the city that never sleeps. I remember from my previous visits that I could not sleep in, I had to get up and keep going, exploring the city. This time around, however, I felt centered. I was able to find peace amongst the bustle and it all felt good.

I saw how much I have learnt about releasing lower energies, staying grounded, and being myself.

Meanwhile, my cold developed into a full-blown head and chest cold. I had to take asthma medicine, and I embraced the clear out my body underwent. It was healing and releasing.

What my kids loved best: Intrepid, the aircraft carrier museum and the Turtle Pond in Central Park

What I loved most: meeting friends face to face, seeing how easy my kids adapted to the American way of life (they took like fish to water), enjoying this adventure together, showing my youngest the hospital he was born in (Lenox Hill), and showing the kids around my old favorite places. It was a good old trip down memory lane.

 

Washington DC

After spending 6 days in our old stomping ground, New York, we moved on to the capital of the United States.

Treating myself as the VIP I am was one of the big lessons I took on. I enjoyed being picked up by an SUV and shuttled onto the hotel. It felt so good and peaceful and being treated like the princess I am, that we all are.

How can you ease your life? What support can you call in? What would help you feel pampered?

 

Calm and serene

Washington DC had a completely different feel to New York City. It was less rush, less bustle, more calm more serenity, and a deep knowledge of being the center of America.

I felt at ease and centered, and really embraced more of myself, too.

You are the president of your life. What can you do today to rule your life, take your next step, and be proud of yourself?

We enjoyed a wonderful 4^th of July parade; however, it started to pour and we had to get some ponchos. The fireworks in the evening were lovely, despite the clouds.

My kids loved best: Air and Space Museum and the Spy Museum,

I loved the feel of the city, the WWII Memorial, and the Air Force Memorial next to Arlington Cemetery, as well as seeing the Capitol, Lincoln Memorial, the White House, etc.

Unfortunately, we missed out on Madame Tussauds Wax Museum. I wanted to see the display of presidents. This is something to look forward to on our next visit, whenever that will be.

I loved to share with you the first part of our journey, stay tuned to read on about all our adventures and what I learnt from it all.

Next week I will be sharing the second part of our journey.

A deeply Healing Journey Part 2

 

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Warm hugs,

Caroline

I had a dream. I knew I wanted to follow my guidance and create a lovely Healing Circle. I knew I could do it, and I had a clear vision of how to support and send love to my group.

Then, when I started to implement everything needed for the group, it felt like I would never be able to do it.

I chose to create the group on a new platform that I was not used to, on top of already feeling like I was running thin with technical issues especially considering the date I had in mind for it all to go live.

There were times when I felt like saying, “That’s it! I’m done. I give up! This is too hard!”

But then again, I reconnected with my beautiful vision, and I knew I would make it work one way or another.

I love to share my love. I love to share my meditations and I love to support others, and I know this will all be great in my group.

However, I had no idea what mountains I needed to climb to make it all work out from the technical side.

I am still doing some of the climbing

 

My Dream

I received the wonderful idea of creating a Palmy Healing Circle, for beautiful souls: a sacred place to share support and spread love. I knew I could reach many wonderful people, and support them during their growth and healing.

The vision was awesome, and I could see myself connecting with everyone, sharing my light, and opening up their inner lights.

I knew I could share so much,

• being present
• sharing a monthly theme
• leading a monthly meditation
• including phases of the moon
• teaching others how to work with the seasons
• connecting people with their inner truth
• giving love and more love

 

All of this from being in a fabulous group.

I have taken part in some online groups, be it on social media topics or a Soul Sister group. They all worked wonders for me and I loved to connect with the people in there too. I love to find spaces where I can just be me and do as much or as little as I like while feeling comfortable and guided.

I knew I could create such a space for a wonderful Palmy Healing Circle, and share my love and support with everyone wishing to be included.

I also knew that I would love it to start after the next New Moon, which is also a Solar Eclipse and a portal for great new beginnings.

 

How to implement it

In my dream, it was all wonderful and easy and it was working perfectly fine.

Yes, I could create a Facebook Group, and be there and share from there.

Then I researched the issues regarding how to create the membership area, and how to make sure people can access month by month.

How do people sign up? Where do I store my meditations?

It’s not just sharing a link in a FB group.

So I had so many questions and new ideas, and I started to implement it all. It sounded easy….

 

Technical Difficulties

No, I am not a techie girl. I love my meditations and I love to share from my heart. I quickly get frustrated with things that don’t work out the way I want, though.

When I started to use my new system, that did all the automation billing and sharing my content, I thought it was great! I was in awe.

However, halfway into it, I got stuck. I could not upload the files I liked. I had no idea how to edit my space where I would be sharing my meditations and other goodies.

I was stuck. I was frustrated, and I felt like I needed to give up and hand in the towel.

I thought I never make it.

And I realised that being stuck in technical issues was really cutting me off from inspiration and from being in the flow.

It was definitely not a place I like to be.

 

Feeling Stuck

Have you ever felt stuck? Do you remember how it felt?

I felt like I was sitting in a dark whole. I thought, “No, I do not want to do this! This is it. I am giving up. No Palmy Healing Circle for me.”

And of course, I was also thinking how stupid it was to choose a new system to use for my group. I might have gone the “easier” way I used for other products; however, I knew I had to build a good foundation for my healing circle. It just didn’t seem possible.

I was pulling my hair out a couple of times during the process because I did not know what to do. Luckily, I had people to reach out to, and they helped me through the issues. However, every time I felt like I had it, it turned out to be not working when I tried it again.

Oh yes, the fun of technology!

 

What to do when you feel stuck

So what can you do when you feel stuck?

• sit and pull out your hair.
• stomp your feet
• hit your head on the table
• go back to bed and have a nice, long nap
• give up and walk away

I knew I needed to get back into the flow, and I also knew that I really, really wanted my Palmy Healing Circle to flourish.

I knew I had to get up in my energy again; I had to get back into the flow, being back in creative mode again.

I felt so bad when I was stuck. Everything was blocked – even my heart, and I had all this negative feelings and emotions.

I wanted the Palmy Healing Circle to be about LOVE and support. I wanted it to shine and spread inspiration feel light and be a beacon of light.

And sitting there with all my technical issues was not in line with what I wanted to create in the first place.

What to do now?

 

 

Get back into the flow

So I sat there and I knew I had to step back. I wasn’t able to solve any issues at that moment, so I need to take a step back, to walk away from it for a moment. I needed to clear my head and my heart and come back at a later stage, when I was refreshed and back in the flow, and yes, hopefully, able to get it done.

How to get back into the flow

• walk in nature
• concentrate on your breathing
• meditate on your outcome
• be creative any way you like
• get a rest
• do something different

So I started to focus on the content I wanted to share. I downloaded fabulous photos of moon phases and seasons and I brainstormed areas I wanted to explore with my group… and voilà all of a sudden, it all looked PINK again. I escaped the grey and black thoughts and visions I’d had only moments before while trying to create the space.

I was back in the flow, back in my heart, and back in the joy of it all. I reconnected to my vision.

If you are ever stuck, step away and get back into YOUR flow in whatever way you’d like. When you return later – being in the flow – it will work much easier.

I was finally able to do things with LOVE again.

There’s no need to throw in the towel when you are stuck. Take your energetic brick wall it as a sign to recharge and do something else for a while.

 

Expressing yourself

I was talking about expressing yourself and how to get into your creative flow during my last webinar. If you’d like to learn more, you can find the webinar in my Healing Shop. It’s called, Express Yourself with Archangel Gabriel.

 

I learnt that I can be quite stubborn, but also that I have a good portion of perseverance in me.

And I am happy to announce that my Palmy Healing Circle is online. I am so happy and thrilled and ready to share my love and support with you.

For more information and to sign up visit:

Palmy Healing Circle

 

Enjoy a wonderful time!

Warmest of hugs,

Caroline

PS: Doreen Virtue and Radleigh Valentine Angel Card Reader Programme. Their first video is out, have a look and enjoy:

Doreen’s Video

 

My Upcoming Events:

Lecture at the American Woman’s Club in Zurich, Tuesday, March 15th at 10 am. Please register at Connect with your Angels

Harmonize Your Life with Archangel Raquel an Online Webinar on Tuesday, March 22nd at 2 pm CET (8 am EST, 1 pm UK Time).

Harmonisiere Dein Leben mit Erzengel Raquel a live Workshop in Adliswil, near Zurich, on Thursday, March 31st 7 pm.

I have just gone live with the third version of my website, and I remember distinctly how challenging it was the very first time around, how much easier it was the second time around, and how completely in the flow it felt this time.

Have a look at PalmyHealing.com. Your feedback is always welcome.

Publishing a website is always a major event, and there are so many details to attend to. I knew from the start that I lacked the patience to handle the technical aspects of building a site, so I invested in a website administrator.

Sharing what you are doing – your love passion and purpose – can be daunting. It almost feels like going naked in public! However, the truer to yourself you are, the better it goes.

This time around, I feel like I have really stepped into my colours embraced most of who I am (we are all works in progress). I feel confident in sharing myself. It is a wonderful feeling, and I hope to inspire you to feel the same.

 

Two years ago

I finished my EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and Pranic Healing education and I was already seeing clients. I knew it would be good for my business to have an online presence, as I love to be online and share my experiences. I decided to make a website.

Back then I had no idea where my path would lead me to. I would have never imagined ending up where I am now. I was not used dreaming big.

I heard from a friend who had a site built and who recommended her website administrator, Will. (BitstromDesign.co.uk)

Naomi Gilmour offers a fabulous course Create your own website, in case you rather do it yourself. I can highly recommend Naomi and her courses, they are fab and fun.

I kept my first site simple, as I was still trying to be widely accepted, so I was simply talking about energy work, I stayed on the ‘safe’ side.

I offered EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique, also called Tapping) sessions and Pranic Healing Sessions. Both techniques have been scientifically proven, and I felt like that fact kept me on the “safe side.”

I did not want to show my spiritual side at all because I feared I could be ridiculed or not taken seriously.

I even hired a ‘ghostwriter’ (someone who writes your text and blog posts for you) for my page, as I didn’t feel comfortable talking about my offerings and myself. It felt so weird. Writing about myself still feels weird sometimes, however I got more comfortable doing it.

My soulful writer, Kate, does a fabulous job. If you’d like to hire a writer, I can highly recommend her (KatePhilbin.com).

I always had excuses not to go public back then. I always convinced myself that this bit or that bit was not perfect and it needed to be changed.

Yes, I lacked a bit of confidence to just go out there. I also imagined that everyone would see my page and judge it and me negatively.

Luckily, Kate and Will pushed me gently to go live, and you know what? I am still here!

 

Doreen Virtue Seminar

When I attended Doreen Virtue’s seminar in Zurich only half a year later, I knew that what I was doing wasn’t Pranic Healing, but was actually Angelic Healing. I channel healing from the Angels. I always knew I was doing more than following the protocols of Pranic Healing, but I hadn’t fully understood before that seminar.

I felt restricted by the structure and strict protocols we were supposed to follow in Pranic Healing. I had guidance to do much more, and so I did.

I loved to be in the flow, and the Angels showed me so many wonderful healing techniques that you wouldn’t read about in any book, not even in Doreen’s.

EFT always felt a bit too “left brainy” for me, if you want to call it that. I love to use it and I love to help people get over a nervous patch or over their restrictive fear; however, I knew it was not me, or at least NOT the true essence of me.

After that seminar, I knew it was time to show my true colours and my love for the Angels.

I have given many readings and received wonderful feedback, and I loved all my Angel courses that I took with Doreen and Charles Virtue, as well as the courses I took with Diana Cooper. I soaked all of the information up and really felt at home around Angel people and the angelic realm.

 

My second website was born

So I stepped up and integrated the Angels into my new website. I think Will was a bit astounded by my request for a new version only half a year after we published the first version of my website.

I had to smile. I knew I was growing and I was becoming more and more Caroline, my true self.

This time, I even wrote my own text, even though it still felt awkward. I had two versions of the site: one in English and one in German. I learnt that I could express myself better and more at ease in English, so the German writing was always a bit of a hard task for me to feel comfortable in. Maybe it’s because you can speak of healing in English; however, in German ‘Heilung’ has a different ring to it.

I had no problem sharing the Angels, and I accepted that my work wouldn’t fit everyone. If someone didn’t like my work with and references to Angels, I wouldn’t want to work with that person anyway.

I learnt I could not please everyone like I had tried to do all of my life. I learnt that the only person I really had to please was myself. I learnt to be true to myself in more ways than I could even imagine.

Creating a website to suit you is a gradual thing. So when you start out with a website, just go ahead and be flexible. The original version of your website does not have to suit you for 10 years. We all change over time, so do our clothes and our websites and how we promote ourselves.

 

 

Stepping into my colours

A bit more than a year after adding the Angels to my site, I am proud to say that I have stepped even more into my true colours and am happy to share a wider area of my work.

I’ve incorporated guided meditations into my offerings. I create personalized meditations for my clients, and I love the journey the Angels take us on when I channel a meditation. These meditations are deeply healing and nourishing.

Receive a healing meditation from me: on my Website Guided Meditation.

I might not have that many Angel pictures on my site anymore; however, rainbows are always a reminder of the beauty within and in the Universe. We are all deeply connected with the Angels and the love from the Universe.

I share the fact that I work with Angels more openly nowadays. I even had an inquiry by phone – a man who found me on one of the EFT sites where I am still listed. I intuitively felt that he didn’t want to work with a spiritual person, so I talked about my work channeling the Angels, and he excused himself.

I was fine with the fact that he didn’t pursue a working relationship with me. I knew I was NOT the right person for him, and hence, I couldn’t really help him along. Of course, it is a pity ‘losing’ his business, but I think I would have done a disservice to both of us had I took him on or reduced myself to ‘just’ EFT. I knew EFT could help him, but for me, doing simple EFT is not who I truly am. I would have felt awkward trying to hide my spiritual side.

I asked the Angels to help him find the perfect therapist so he can be helped and guided along.

Does this mean I only work with spiritual people? No, not at all – but I do know that I want clients who are at least open to Angels and the Universe.

 

Adding rainbows

I love rainbows, as I see them being symbolic of a promise of a brighter future here and now.

I love colours and rainbows contain all colours. They are so pure and sparkly and just amazing and yes… magical.

Rainbows are also the promise of a new day and brighter day.

 

Videos

When I updated my website, I integrated videos into all of my pages so prospective clients get a sense of who I am. People can hear and see me, and find out whether they would like to work with me.

Many people have told me that I have a calming voice and that they love my readings and videos. Why not share these things on my website so that everyone can get a better idea of who I am?

I love sharing videos about my love for my work and what I am doing. I hope it comes over clearly.

 

Dropping the German

Something that was always a bother to me was the German version of my site and having to update two pages all the time.

I learnt that my ideal client speaks enough English to understand what I am writing about. I am comfortable holding a session in German, however, the writing and duplication was too much.

When I saw my friend Karina‘s website (KarinaLadet.com), and noticed that she had just one page in FRENCH in all of her website. I felt it was an awesome idea. Now, I have ONE page dedicated to German (Deutsch) where I share a bit about my work in general and give an overview just for the people who struggle with reading English.

This way, I support my local client base while easing the burden of updating my site in 2 languages.

Life feels so much easier and I am so much more in the flow.

I’ve learnt to do it RIGHT for me, without feeling like I have to please everyone.

 

Getting out there

This time around, we went online before my site was perfect.

The PayPal buttons still showed coding and the pages had no featured images, which made sharing posts weird. I still have to have someone go over the German text while it is already published.

I feel more comfortable also, as my lovely Editor, Susan Ellis-Saller, went over my English text with her magical wand, and pointed out several things to me before we went live. She is awesome, and I can highly recommend her, not only for her editorial work but also for her Reiki Sessions and most of all her Spiritual Business Mentoring work. (SusanEllisSaller.com)

 

Learn to be flexible

I am very much OK with the fact that we all change constantly, so why should my website be static?

I don’t fear showing my human side online. We all make mistakes.

Yes, I still have a high expectation of myself and still have a hint of perfectionism in me; however, I am much more in the flow, happy, and flexible.

I also know that mistakes on my website might not haunt me for eternity, as long as I share my messages with love.

 

So, dear friend, if you’d like to start with a website, remember the first step is always the hardest. If you do what feels right for yourself and just take one step at a time, though, your confidence will grow and you’ll find that there is a big loving world out there, ready to embrace you.

 

Warm hugs,

Caroline

PS:

My Upcoming Events:

Lecture at the American Woman’s Club in Zurich, Tuesday, March 15th at 10 am. Please register at Connect with your Angels

Harmonize Your Life with Archangel Raquel an Online Webinar on Tuesday, March 22nd at 2 pm CET (8 am EST, 1 pm UK Time).

Harmonisiere Dein Leben mit Erzengel Raquel a live Workshop in Adliswil, near Zurich, on Thursday, March 31st 7 pm.

 

My Healing Shop:

If you missed an event, you can always find my meditations and all my webinars in my Healing Shop.

What can you do when you lose something?

The other day when I was in town, I suddenly realised that I had lost my little angel figurine from my key chain.

I was sad. I loved that little Angel. It was so beautiful – carved out of amber and I felt it guided me along. It also held a special meaning for me, as I got it from a dear friend.

After I lost the little angel, however, I immediately realised that someone was meant to find an Angel that day. I knew I lost that Angel so someone else would be able to find some guidance and uplift their spirit by finding my little lost Angel. Someone needed the reassurance from the Angels more than I did.

I was happy to be of service, and I gladly said goodbye to my little Angel. It had served me so well and now it would serve someone else well for a while.

Some things are only meant for a certain time – I know that. The only constant in life is change, and we have to be flexible and adaptable enough.

Holding on to things that no longer serve us will only hurt us.

Losing that Angel brought that all home. I could have sat there for hours, contemplating, “Oh where did I lose it? Why didn’t I check it better?” I could have walked back all the way I came; I could have done a million things, but they probably would not have brought this Angel back to me.

The knowledge that my time with this Angel had come to an end, and that this beautiful Angel was going to serve someone else was very comforting.

When we walk the path trusting that everything has a higher reason, we can be happier. We are free of self-blame and worry. We just know that the things that happen are meant to be – there is a higher reason for it, and all is well.

Have you ever lost something? How do you still feel about it?

If you find yourself being sad or mad about something you’ve misplaced, you can ask Archangel Michael to help you release pain and sorrow, then you can ask Archangel Raphael to send green healing light to you so you can heal from your loss. I also usually have Mother Mary help me release the pain from my heart.

I explain the little exercises in this video, enjoy

 

The work with Mother Mary can be followed by asking the Angels to pour beautiful pink soothing light all around me.

You can sit quietly and let the Angel show you what a gift you have brought to the world. Know deep down in your heart that all is well, and this needed to happen for a reason unknown to you.

How do you feel now?

Of course, this method can also be applied to grief when a loved one has passed into the light. If you feel the grief still, know that your loved one is well, and his/her time was up. There was nothing more that you could have done, and nothing would have changed the outcome.

When you are grieving, ask Archangel Azrael to help you with your grief, and to help elevate the pain. Archangel Azrael can also help you to connect with your loved one’s soul. Maybe you can sense him/her around for a while.

Always thank the Angels for their help, and remember, that a grateful heart is always full.

I wish you all a wonderful day…

May peace and trust be with you,

and remember to talk to your Angels.

Warm hugs,

Caroline

PS: Next week I will hold my Workshop ‘Verschönere Dein Leben mit Erzengel Jophiel’ in Adliswil, Thursday 28th at 7pm, would love to see you there.

If you missed out on my online Webinar ‘Beautify Your Life with Archangel Jophiel,’ you can download it now from my Healing Shop.

Last week, we looked back over the first half of 2015. I shared my personal, emotional, spiritual, and business growth. (Review of first half of 2015)

Are you ready to read about the second part?

Have you had a chance to look back over YOUR year? If not, please do so soon.

 

July

July meant summer break, time to travel, and also, take some time just for myself.

My children and I had a lovely time in Venice. I have never been to that fabulous city, and my daughter, Catherine, and my younger son, Horatio, came along, while my older son, Mathew, stayed home and worked at a summer job.

It was lovely family time – relaxing and getting into the Italian life, which to me meant loving and eating and just being happy and celebrating life.

When we returned home, I loved working in my outdoor office, where I made sure my posts got shared and just caught up with emails and business stuff.

Later in July, I went up into the mountains, to a fabulous Ayurveda retreat at Hotel Fidazerhof (Fidazerhof.ch), where they serve fabulous nourishing food. Antonia, the Ayurveda Doctor, really examined me closely and helped me to release some of the acid that has accumulated in my system over the years.

I had a very deeply healing week up there, without my kids. It was the first time I was away from my kids for more than just a day.

It was also the very first time I had a vacation on my own and did something just for myself.

It was awesome. I love the mountains. I love nature, and up there nature is still untouched and so pure.

The air has a higher energy, and I did some deep healing – touching parts of myself that I had been neglecting and releasing some old pain I’d been holding onto.

Of course, I missed my children, but, then again, it was very relaxing to just be by myself and have time to deeply reconnect to my inner core.

 

August

I went to Italy with my younger son, Horatio, to meet up with his friend and his friend’s family. We enjoyed a couple of days on Capri and then some time at the beach.

I read a lot and enjoyed some downtime while visiting with friends and swimming in the ocean.

I love the ocean, it is so soothing and healing, and also love the easygoing Italian way of life.

Mid-August was time to go back to school and adopt some new routines. I stopped driving my kids to school they happily started taking the public transport. It was a huge relief for me. (How saying No has opened up my life)

I treated myself to an Astrological reading with Pam Gregory (The Next Step). The reading helped me learn so much about myself and got a step further in self-acceptance. Hearing that you are just the way you are, is wonderfully liberating.

It was a bit hard for me to get back into the routine after a leisurely summer. I needed that time away, and I also loved to be back in a normal routine.

Plus, all the preparation and Meet The Teacher Nights at school and just getting back into the swing of things always takes some readjustment.

I started to use Periscope (@PalmyHealing) as another way to connect with my crowd and share some daily guidance or things that I have learnt.

During this time, I missed another Women’s Circle evening with Urte using vibrating sounds in the woods.

 

 

September

My oldest son Mathew started University, and he took to it like a fish to water. I was so happy proud and relieved.

He had a collection of experiences all through his school years as an Indigo Child, and seeing him find his place, and knowing he feels good at what he is doing is just wonderful.

I love the fact that he is so independent and enjoying his university days, however getting up at 5:15 AM every morning does take a bit of a toll on both of us.

I held my first Online Webinar, Releasing Old Burdens With Archangel Michael. It was an awesome experience, despite the fact that I had some technical glitches because I was using new software. Many starts are a bit challenging.

I also started my live workshops in Adliswil again. I was so thrilled that two people signed up, but a bit sad that both of them cancelled on very short notice. Never mind, those things happen.

A group of woman I know worked together to get the Gesundheitsnetz Adliswil life and up and running. It is wonderful to have a place to share our experiences and a platform for people to find the help they are looking for. I am happy to be part of that group.

There were also some solar and lunar eclipses that were quite intense for me in September, and I needed time to hibernate again. Did you feel a difference during those times?

I attended the Indian Music and Healing Concert by Balaji També – and I loved it! I was able to feel a shifting of my energy and deep healing take place. It was such an amazing experience and worth the drive into Zurich.

I donated our Table Tennis table to the school, a first start into releasing things that no longer serve us.

I met up with my friend, artist Lizi, who designed my logo (The Story behind my Logo). It is always lovely to catch up when she is in Switzerland.

I finally met my landlord who came by and had a look at the house. The little scare I went through when I thought he wanted to sell the house or move back into it himself (What to do when fear strikes) turned out to be just a scare, luckily.

 

 

October

I started a fabulous course with Naomi Gilmour from branchingoutonline.co.uk called Smart Social Media Success.

I was already active on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter, but I needed to know more about Pinterest and Google + as well as LinkedIn. So her course was just the thing I needed, and I liked it a lot.

Naomi was awesome, and supported all of us in the group, and I found new friends among them too. I can highly recommend working with Naomi.

I held my second online webinar, Archangel Raphael Release Old Wounds. This time around, my technical knowledge was better, and all worked smoothly. Yeah, you see, keep going….

I released some more of my married life and donated my clothes and shoes to the church. (Stop Should-ing yourself)

October was the month to reconnect with some Angel friends, and really feel the energy and understanding we share.

 

 

November

I knew I wanted to keep my webinars and share them with everyone who was interested, so I started to implement a shopping system onto my website, thanks to my Website Admin, Will, from Bitstormdesign.

I always love to learn new things and keep growing, so I chose to take some online courses.

I started Doreen Virtue’s Assertiveness Coaching Online Program and learnt a lot.

I also learned so much about the Universal Law from Mike Dooley and his Playing the Matrix Online Course. I loved that, too!

And I loved to reconnect with Dr. Wayne Dyer and his Soul Teaching Online Course.

I am so happy that I was already able to share this vast knowledge with some of my clients. I love to learn more for myself and for you all. There is so much out there that I love.

There is a lot covered in those courses, and with everything going on around me, I am still working completing them, and enjoying them at a more leisurely pace.

I finally applied to Leonie Dawson’s Business Academy. I finally felt it was the time for me now. I have been following her for a while, and always felt she is great. Now is my time to work with her.

I have ordered her fabulous Year Planner (Leonie’s Year Planner) and I know that 2016 will be the year to open up and expand.

I implemented a weekly Meditation Class, as so many friends and clients asked for it. Meditations are what I love and what really gets people in the flow, too. There is so much healing going on during the mediations, it is amazing. I love to work with the Angels.

I shared my first E-book, Life with an Indigo Child and I got great feedback from readers. I was so happy to have shared my experiences, and that I could inspire other moms by doing this. Most of all, I want them to feel that they are not the only ones dealing with Indigo Children.

I also learnt to take some time out and implement self-care and rest, as doing too much was wearing me out and I ended up having a cold. (What having a Cold has taught me)

I held another wonderful online webinar, Heal Your Heart With Mother Mary. I got the hang of the technology now and love it. If you missed any of my meditations or webinars, you can find them on my Healing Shop.

I gave up my family car, and the first car – ever – I chose for myself and all by myself. It was a symbol of my strength and start of independence. (Stepping into my own power)

I started to come out of my shell a bit more, too. I needed that hermit time over most of summer to really get to know myself better, be my own introverted self (How does it feel to be an Introvert) and to enjoy my empathy (How does it feel like to be an Empath) during this time geared towards myself.

Now that I have grown and reconnected with my inner and truest self, it is time to get out of my cave, shine my light, and reconnect with loving friends, family, and clients.

I had a lovely lunch with one lady from the Four Girls group (Divorcees), talking about how we grew since our separations and how we can keep growing and standing up for ourselves. I consider this time spent with lovely friends as a treasure.

I shared all about my relationship patterns (How to heal past Relationships) and what I learnt from them. People really connected to my story and shared some of their experiences with me, which filled my heart. We are NOT alone.

I know I am doing the right thing by sharing openly and from my heart – being vulnerable and open – so I can help and inspire others in similar situations.

It is all about shining your own light.

 

 

December

I had my first public event: I did readings at DeinMedium (DeinMedium.ch) Event in Zurich, this was a huge step for me, and I was happy to be part of it all. I had to introduce myself in front of 100 people, and I had to speak in Swiss German, which is my mother tongue. However, as I mostly speak English for my business, I had a pause where I could not find the right word! Yes, it was the first step, and it is ok not to be overly confident about speaking in front of a crowd. I can keep practicing it.

December is the holiday times. We celebrate Christmas and love sitting around a log fire, lighting candles, eating cookies and drinking some tea, as well as opening a door on our Advent Calendar each day till Christmas.

 

This is down time for me, a time to look back and see how far I have come before 2016 takes me up in a swing.

December is also the month to concentrate on love and being in the flow. It’s a month in which we can we release some more, find out how we can heal our hearts, step more into ourselves, and let the love flow.

I have created an Advent Calendar with Daily Inspirations, and this is surely something I will do again next year, or continuously over the year. Sharing inspiration is a lovely way to help others see the light at the end of the tunnel. I love to share beautiful quotes, which have meant a lot for me, and have helped me along; along with the meaning they hold for me, explaining how the quotes helped me.

December is also the time for you to look back over the past year, and see how far you’ve come, how much you have grown in your emotional life as well as spiritually, or in your business, if you run one.

December is also the time to look forward to the next year.

What are your goals for 2016? What would you like to achieve? What new things are you planning for 2016? What do you want to learn? How do you want to spent your down time and how do you want to spend extra time with your family and loved ones?

What are the areas in your emotional and spiritual life you want to look into? What courses do you want to take and what do you want to learn in 2016?

Plan ahead and rejoice!

What was your favorite month in 2015?

What did you enjoy the most?

What are the areas you learnt the most?

 

Look back over your 2015 and make sure you implement more of the good things into 2016 and create loving memories too.

 

Cheers to you and all you have achieved in 2015.

Keep going, Beautiful Soul and 2016 will be amazing.

Let’s embrace the New Year with open arms.

Warm hugs,

 

Caroline

PS: Merry Christmas from my heart to yours.

Messages passed on during Angel readings are always appropriate for the given moment in space and time. The Angels want to assure us that the messages we receive are guiding us, not hindering us. So, even though a message might seem to be inaccurate at first, the person will eventually find that it was the perfect message for him or her at that time.

Let me explain this by a little example:

 

Was It Wrong?

A couple of years ago, during a course, a younger woman complained that the reading she got (from someone other than me) some years ago was not accurate.

She explained that she had asked whether she had to learn something more, and the answer given to her was NO.

She went on to describe how only 2 months after the reading, she heard about a fabulous new course of study and went ahead and plunged in, and that now she made this new modality her life’s purpose and was teaching it to others.

So, she thought that her reading was not accurate, as she obviously still had to learn something new.

What do you think? What could the answer to that remark be?

 

First Point

When she got the original answer, she did NOT need to learn a new tool right at that moment.

That would be a simple answer to his dilemma.

 

Second Point (This is where the Angels are geniuses)

Let’s assume this woman was told that she had to learn something more. What do you think she would have done?

She would have gone out, looking and searching and looking some more for this new area of study. She would have looked everywhere.

Do you think she would have found this new venture that she actually stumbled across after she was told NO? Most probably NOT.

You see, when we are actively looking for something, we often miss it. Even though she might have had a perception of what she was looking for, she would be hunting frantically, instead of looking in a calmer and more peaceful manner.

Yes, even if she had come across this new method that she eventually mastered, she might not have given it a second glance if she thought she was meant to find THE one thing.

We are open for new adventures when we are relaxed: open to receive and at peace with our minds and our hearts.

The same thing also applies to people who are single and desperately looking for their soul partners. They look so hard and never find the right person, because they are so out there, instead of within themselves. They look so far for Mr. or Mrs. Right, when their true soul mate might actually be right under their nose, a friendly neighbour, or so. They are giving off the energy of chasing, instead of attracting.

 

The Solution

The reading the woman had been given was right, at that special time for that special person.

We always get the messages we need to hear.

The answers are simple and uniquely designed for our needs at a given time. The Angels provide the optimum information for our development.

 

 

Another Example

The question: Is that job right for me?

First of all, if you have to ask, the answer will most often be NO. You ask, because you feel uneasy. Otherwise, you would just feel sure about it – elevated and so in the flow – that you would take the job without having to ask if it was, in fact, right for you.

 

My Readings

During the readings I give, I can tell you how you feel about a particular situation. If there is another person involved, I can sense how you feel about the person, without that person actually having to be there.

All I am doing is translating your signs for you. I can tell you how you feel and think about something, which is often a good point to start with.

And I love getting feedback and smile when people tell me, “Yes, that is exactly how I feel.”

Please be aware, though, that I never give you guidance about how another person is or what s/he thinks. I do not do 3rd person readings. I will give you clear signs about you, your situation, and how you feel about it.

 

An Angel Reading Is Never Fortune Telling

A reading with the Angels delivers messages from the Universe to you. It gives you a status update of where you are standing, and how you are feeling in the moment.

If you would like to know more about my Angel Readings, have a look at my Angel Reading Page.

Remember there are many ways to Rome, and we often need to take a wrong turn to arrive at the right destination.

Live in the moment – enjoy it, make the best out of it, and keep living, without over thinking things too much.

Be in the flow of love – love for yourself, love for your life, and love for the Universe.

Warmest of hugs,

Caroline

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it will always find its way to you.

Have you had incidents in your life you just realised were meant to be? Maybe it was fate that led you to talk to a person. Maybe it was meant to be that you watched a particular movie, or maybe you met your Soul Mate and just knew you were meant to be together.

Angels support us behind the scenes in our lives and make things happen, just because those things are meant to be.

You may not have had a Divinely Guided experience yet, or maybe you didn’t recognize an experience as one that was fated to be. That’s ok.

I want to share with you the story of how we came to live in the house we live in now – where we’ll stay, even after the little scare we just had (read more here).

Time to Move

Nearly two years after the breakup of my marriage, in October 2010, I started to look for a new home to live in with my three kids. I was ready to move on. My ex wanted to sell the house we were living in, and – quite frankly – it was far away from the international school my kids attended. The drive to school was long and through heavy traffic. Aside from that, I was ready to start anew.

In the beginning, I just wanted to keep stability for my kids, and that is why I stayed in our old house for so long. Their father leaving was enough change. There was no need to put them through a move and de-root them at the same time. Alas, after two years, I felt it was OK to move.

I started to look at websites and check out the vacancies in our area. It was just for fun at first, just to get an idea of what was out there and about what I would like to have. This was the very first time in my life I could choose housing for myself. It was an awesome feeling.

House hunting

I started to look at homes, too, to get a feel for it. I was at one house that just wasn’t right, but the guy showing the house from the property management firm was very kind. I told him I would love to move into that area, and that I was looking for houses with 4 bedrooms.

Later that day, he sent me a link to another house they had to rent. I looked at it and felt, “yeah not bad,” but that was it. I did not follow up on it because I was busy otherwise, so the house hunting got pushed aside.

That was maybe the end of October/mid-November… somewhere around there.

I got a call

At the beginning of December, I was having lunch with my sister when I got a phone call from the nice property manager. He asked me if I’d had a look at the details about the house he’d sent out. I said I had, but mentioned it was surely gone by now. He said that it was still available. Oh wow!

I was surprised that the house was still on the market, as it was in a prime area. We set an appointment for me to look at it.

Informing the kids

Meanwhile, I had talked to the kids and gently told them that it was time for us to move. Yes, they would be closer to their friends, and yes, the drive would be less hassle and yes, it would be great. Of course, they were reluctant to leave the home and surroundings they knew, but that was only to be expected.

It was December 24^th, 2010, when we first looked at the house. The sun was shining – a rare thing in winter. The area looked great. There was a nature reserve next door, a soccer field just down from the house, a huge park for kids to play at within walking distance. It seemed like it had everything we wanted.

Visiting our house for the first time

We went into this house, and I LOVED the kitchen. The sun shining made the cabinets look pale blue (they are actually grey-ish). There was a steamer in it – brilliant!

There were 3 bedrooms on the second floor, and the kids immediately settled on which room belonged to whom. I had a whole floor to myself one floor above the kids.

I was amazed. It felt like we had already decided on the house! All felt ready for us. We fell in love with that house.

 

 

This house was waiting for us

The same day we looked at two other houses. We did NOT like those other houses; we really loved the first one we looked at.

The house we loved was already empty, but I was not ready to move in immediately. That wasn’t a problem. I could start renting it from March 1st on, which gave me time to organize the move and also the whole month of March to move in.

We were in the flow

It was an amazing move. Everything went smoothly. It felt so right from the start, and it was all we’ve ever needed after we left our old home.

We are still very happy in our house. It is the perfect location for us, and our landlord is really nice.

We thank the Universe for sending us this house, and we’ll be happy to live in it for a couple more years to come.

It was simply meant to be

Thinking back, I realise that I never took a second look at the portfolio sent to me. I smile knowing that the Universe intervened and made sure we went to look at it and held it for us.

It’s amazing. I’m so in awe! Sometimes things are just meant to happen.

Have you had a similar experience in your life? Feel free to share your story with me.

This theory also applies to things falling apart.

Last week, I had a misunderstanding with a coach I was working with, and things ended in a huge blow-up. We ended up parting ways afterward. I felt sorry for the misunderstanding that I might have unintentionally caused; however, this whole scene brought out true faces, and I know I am better off without her.

I thanked the Angels for intervening for me. I knew deep down in my gut that she and I weren’t a good match, but somehow I still was not able to say NO to another round of coaching sessions. I felt obliged and I suppressed my own guidance. Now I feel much lighter and so much freer and happier. I know this was divine intervention, like when my ex-husband decided to move out. It was devastating at the time, but a huge blessing in disguise.

So you see, when something is meant to be, it always finds its way to you. Equally, when something is not meant to be, the Universe assists you in letting it fall away.

Be open to whatever comes in your life and go forward with trust that your Angels always have your back, no matter what.

Sending you warm hugs

and much love,

Caroline

PS: Would you love to learn more about the Angels, join me on my Webinars, the next one will be on October 20th (replay available). Find out more here.

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Last week, we looked at how to talk to the Angels. This week, we’ll explore how to listen to the Angels.

Of course, when you ask a question, you want to be able to understand the answer. We all want to know when the Angels have heard and answered our prayers.

Oftentimes, you just want some guidance along your path, and it is lovely to have that feeling that reaffirms your connection with the Universe.

There are several ways the Angels communicate with you. They can send guidance through the senses (feeling, hearing, seeing, or knowing). They also visit while you are meditating or dreaming.

Meditation is a wonderful tool to use to connect to the guidance of your Angels, as concentrating on your breathing can help you connect to higher realms.

I’ve created a video to give you an example of a breathing exercise you can use to be more receptive to the guidance you receive and to feel more connected to the Universe.

You can also simply sit still and quiet your mind for a while or be outside in nature. Nature is always a good way to connect to your Angels; you are more receptive outdoors in beautiful nature, as all of your mental clutter gets released.

The Affirmations, “I am open to receiving now”, or “I am able to receive my Angels guidance clearly now,” are very helpful too.

When you are ready to receive messages from the Angels, just turn your senses into your body and notice any thoughts or feelings that come. There’s no need to analyze anything, just be open and observant.

You might want to have a pen and paper ready, in case you would love to take notes. Just remember, it is best to keep your eyes closed when you are learning to receive messages so that you can really concentrate on how your messages come to you.

How the Guidance May Come to You

Feeling

Some people are receptive to messages that come via their feelings. These people get a sense in their bodies of what is right or wrong for them.

Hearing

Some people hear the Angels’ voices. The voices might be loud, or just like whispers in your inner ear. Make note of anything you hear, either aloud or in your inner ear.

Seeing

Some people see the Angels’ messages. These images might be like little movies, or you might see pictures with your third eye. Notice anything you see or what is coming in front of your inner eye.

Knowing

Some people just know. The answers they are seeking just come to them. It’s like an inner knowledge.

Smelling

Some people even receive scent messages – maybe a hint of a perfume, or an essential oil – a smell activates memories or gives the person an idea of what to do next.

Signs

The Angels can also send signs in real life. They might send feathers, butterflies, or coins just to show you that they are around. You might see numbers repeatedly. Sometimes you just see an ad or a meme on Facebook and know that it is the answer to your prayer.

Messages can also come through songs. If, all of a sudden, you hear a special song on the radio, that contains the guidance you were looking for – that’s a sign from the Angels!

There are so many ways the Angels communicate with us. Basically put, if you feel what you experience might be a sign, it most certainly is. Be open to receiving the signs now.

Please don’t go out looking for signs, as they most frequently appear out of the blue. Also while you are straining to find the signs, you might overlook the ones they are sending you. Be free of expectations, be open to receive.

 

 

Meditation

As mentioned above, meditation is a wonderful state in which to listen to the Angels. When you are in a state of relaxation, you are much more open to receiving messages. It doesn’t matter what kind of meditation you use – they all work to help you achieve a state of heightened relaxation.

“Prayer is when you talk to God; meditation is when you listen to God.” Diana Robinson.

 

Sleep

The Angels often visit when you sleep. Of course, you are at a deep state of relaxation when you sleep and open to their guidance. Don’t be surprised if you know an answer to something you were fretting about before you went to bed when you wake in the morning.

Don’t worry if you can’t remember your dreams, either. Just know that whatever you need to know may be hidden down deep in your soul and may seem inaccessible when you are awake. Your sub-conscious will be able to work things out when you sleep.

 

My Angel Story

The day I was due to go live on a radio show, I was a bit nervous. On the way back from driving my children to school, I saw a truck that said ‘Gabriel‘ on its side. I knew immediately that the Angels want to send me a sign to let me know that Archangel Gabriel (the Archangel associated with communication and speech) was with me, and would help me to speak clearly.

It was wonderful to see this message. All of my nervousness left me that moment, and I was happy and eager to talk on the radio show. It turned out to be a great experience.

You can also read, how my father has visited me during my sleep after he has passed into the light here .

Wishing you a wonderful week!

Warm hugs,

Caroline

PS: Next week, I will be sharing about how it feels to be an introvert in this extroverted world.

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